Five Things You Shouldn’t Say to Your Pregnant Wife
You are trying your best to make your pregnant wife happy. So why do you always seem to say the wrong thing? Here’s a guide of some well-intentioned comments that may end up doing more harm than good. Even better, I’ve given you some always-acceptable replacements!
Instead, say: “You look so cute.” I will always remember the first time my husband spontaneously told me I looked cute when I was pregnant. A compliment is never out of line.
Instead, say: “I just want both of you to be healthy.” Even if she pushes you. Even if she begs to know which gender you want. You keep your poker face and say that her and the baby’s health is the most important thing. After all, it is.
Instead, say: “We can do this.” Why is this so much better? Because it implies that you’re there for her. And that’s what she wants. No, she may not feel ready on her own, but the two of you can take on anything.
Instead, say: “Tell me more.” Be as sympathetic and interactive as possible and settle in for the ride. Again- she just wants you to be on the same team. And you think this is bad? Just wait until you’re discussing the contents of your little one’s latest dirty diaper.
Instead, say: “I can’t wait until the baby’s here. Hope it’s soon!” She does too! She doesn’t want to waddle any longer than she has to. The more you can tell her that you’re excited, the more confident she’ll feel.
Good luck!
By Laura Lee Anderson, a mom-to-be.
Laura is an author, wife, actress, and mother. She's also married to our Creative Director Eric.
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